I know the fake version well--- very well. They know us better then even we know ourselves.
I couldn't disagree more! We only behaved in a predictable enough manner to give them this impression.
The you I see today is not the Cagz that your H sees. He might think he knows you, but he'd be wrong. He only thinks he knows you when you take his bait and react the way you used to react--"the reason he left". (Oh boy, do I know that one firsthand.) But he really doesn't know you anymore. If he did, he'd know that you are a fabulous woman--not only the mother of his children, but a truly beautiful woman on the inside AND the outside. And he'd have given you the benefit of the doubt.
So perish that thought and give yourself a big pat on the back. You deserve it!
Oh yeah, Cagz? I love your mom. She rocks!
Last edited by Underdog; 03/19/0804:34 PM.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
