It is hard when they don't want us anymore physically. Again, this goes to show how everyone and every sitch is not quite the same.
ACJ, I am sorry there is no more physical contact b/w the two of you. Maybe it confused him. Who knows.
Look, I am not going to say that being intimate with him is NOT confusing. It is confusing. Again, if I KNEW he was intimate with someone else now that he is gone from home, I doubt that I would even let him touch me. However, I don't know that...so I just go with the flow.
ACJ and Kiki, it is hard to have that intimacy when you KNOW he is being intimate with someone else. I don't know how I did it in the first place...I think it was the newness and having NO IDEA what was going on...In retrospect, I don;t know if I would have been that way.
This is all very confusing ladies and again, everyone's sitch is different. BUT I am holding on to that piece of contact with him until I don't feel good about it anymore...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
