You are so welcome. Yeah, I suspect my W is flirting/talking/seeing someone. I don't know if it's better to know or suspect. I just try my hardest to not think about it. At least your H hasn't filed, hold on to that. If he was DONE with the marriage, he wouldn't be putting that off. My W on the other hand is proceeding at light speed. Wants to divide the bills, is cutting off contact with me, is cutting off contact with my family, and our first court date for temporary living arrangements and custody is next week.
I think you are doing wonderfully. I read a great quote yesterday. "Don't tell God how big your problems are. Tell your problems how big your God is!" Hang in there.