Hi, Joie! Glad to hear you are doing well!!! It sounds like your H's relationship is dying. I think he will feel differently about her when it is completely over (can't see your H wanting to always be friends with his affair partner)! Karen
He made the "we'll always be friends" comment when he was still pretty foggy.
I have a rare medical problem. I'm fortunate to live within driving distance to the National Institutes of Health. I've been going there for a few years for follow-up. Spent all day there yesterday for tests/scans. It was a long day. Got there at 7:30 a.m. and left at 8:30 p.m.!
As soon as I got out of the parking garage, a voice mail came through to my cell. My H had called saying he was wondering how things were going, that he was thinking about me, etc. He hasn't done that in a long time.
I also hope your test results come out well and you are OK! That is so great that your H called you like that and left you such a sweet message!!! Karen
I havent read much of your stich yet just the last few. Really wanted to say thanks for your support and advice for me. Hope things are going well and you are feeling good. I will have to read all of your posts later. Good luck and thanks for being so helpful
So, H and I had a small R talk tonight. We've been doing so well we haven't had any of those lately.
His company is setting up offices in 2 other states. Both locations are within driving distance but we're talking between 2-4 hr drives. He'll have to be driving to each location to help get the offices going. He said he would have to stay overnight a few times and wanted to know if that was ok.
I asked why it wouldn't be ok with me. (I was surprised that he was asking my permission.) He said he's been avoiding having to do that so I wouldn't wonder/worry if he was alone or not. I was sort of stunned. I told him I had noticed he wasn't staying over as much but figured it was because things were over with OW.
He was pretty upset that I thought that was the reason he had not stayed over anywhere. He said, OW was not with him as much as I thought. And most of his overnight stays for work were just that, and he was alone. He said again he stopped it because of me.
It seems he's been pretty transparent with me on that issue but I didn't even know it. It was good to talk with him about that. At least now when he has to go out of town, I'll feel better...
Karen