Thanks everyone, saffie i'll check out the post of the others.
The person close to me was it him or her?
Karen - thank you for that, i'll check out your post to, hope you are ok?
Seek - thanks, that book might be a good read for me. I know H isn't rushing D, I don't think he could. I have just spoken to my SIL, she has spoken to our bil this week and apparently H has spoken to his dad more times in the last 2 weeks than in the last 10 years. Doesn't that sound like a troubled or confused person?
Thank you all for calming me down, to take stock and sit still. For now.
xxxx
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07