Thanks everyone, saffie i'll check out the post of the others.

The person close to me was it him or her?

Karen - thank you for that, i'll check out your post to, hope you are ok?

Seek - thanks, that book might be a good read for me. I know H isn't rushing D, I don't think he could. I have just spoken to my SIL, she has spoken to our bil this week and apparently H has spoken to his dad more times in the last 2 weeks than in the last 10 years. Doesn't that sound like a troubled or confused person?

Thank you all for calming me down, to take stock and sit still. For now.

xxxx


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07