Kiki, glad you felt good doing it. I completely understand how you feel.

I don't have kids but if I did and was going through this...I am sure I would be spewing all the time! Me and my latin temper!!! I think you are doing great!

I think you are right in creating boundaries regarding your child. He needs to know how this is affects her. Regardless of what happens between you two...he is STILL and always will be her father. Again, I would be really hard-core on that...bad DBing and all...so I think you are doing great!

You have really held it together...they are so lost...I can see that in my H...he is just out there...and my anger is fading and I feel compassion towards him...

You really are an inspiration...

Valentine

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller