The gossip has died down now, however i have no one to talk to as tehy all suggest the D route, i don't know of anyone who has survived an affair.
xxx Evie XX
I think some people just don't talk about the affairs b/c it's painful or embarrassing or whatever. I know my brother had an affair, moved out, but he and his wife reconciled and that was 4 or 5 years ago. After I told my sil about H's affair, she told me her partner had also had an affair, but with counseling they have reconciled as well. Karen