Sue, I think my H's affair was an exit affair as well (combined with his MLC). I wonder how that affects our DB'ing--I guess makes it tougher? Even though I am fine with our separation, I still continue to have a tiny bit of hope that the affair will break up and H will reconsider our M and family.
The kids and I are doing well so far. I think there is a little bit of relief that the stress they were living in with H having an affair and his crazy and flaky behavior, that is done and we are finally living in a more peaceful and calm household (as much as you can have with 2 kids anyway!). I was dreading the separation, but it is not as bad as thought it would be!!! Karen
