He is in MLC...nothing is as it seems...OF COURSE everything you say (which is the truth btw) is considered 'vicious'...he is using that to explain why he is where he is at...
Not a fair fight...but there it is.
I think they really do need to hear, at some point, what we feel and how they have hurt us. I am not suggesting that you hold it all inside. You are right at being outraged at his behavior towards your daughter. He has to understand there are limitations and boundaries regarding her and his behavior towards her...unfortunately, they put everything in one bucket and treat it virtually the same.
The truth is NOT vicious. It is hurtful. I am not sure though that your venting out stuff on him is gonna change him.
Just my 2 cents.
V
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
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