Cat Love the cheese ...hate the tunnels. I too believe this will be a good move...as soon as he does!!!!
He has been working on his place and since it has been raining he really can't move his furniture in!!!!
Hard to bite my tongue, tape my hands, smile and over all act " as if"...but i'm the better person...right?????
NA When I asked H to please move everything out at once instead of dribbles and drabs he said o.k. He has stuff to do in the house and it's not healthy for him and (besides I'm not an Ogre not yet anyway )
Went to councellor yesterday morning and to a new support group last night.
Got a lot of good information from both but was emotionally exhausted....
Sooooo I'm going to try to apply my new knowledge starting today...
O.K. NA, I'm going to give this a shot.... I'm really nervous but here goes.....
goals for me------> find me again relax and don't walk on eggshells around H try not to cry around H (hehates this) take care of me
goals for R-------> let lawyer handle things no R talks about ANYTHING! act "as if" sit on hands, shut mouth Listen, listen listen!
Please feel free to add as necessary... All input welcome as I am all over the place with this
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"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
not yet anyway 
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