Gavin, its frustrating how it feels that something this drastic had to happen for us to really change. In your case, there is still hope that it could lead to something positive. Do you ever feel you are too nice to her? She is walking all over you by living together and buying drugs with your money. I say that because it seems like every post involves her doing drugs. Weed is her H right now. That being said though. I think you are doing great. You are a strong person. I wish I even could talk to my wife right now.
