Strikes me this is getting crucial. July is not that far away. You need to know his intentions - even if it's not what you want - you need to know to protect yourself. Is there a fall back position for just you and your D - is there anywhere you two could rest your heads for a few weeks if you had to whilst decisions are made?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength