Kiki, we are all human and I think sometimes we have to let some of it out even if it isn't exactly dbing. However, i think it is important not to let it get out of control...you do not want to be guilty of what they are doing because look at how it has affected us?
They are still human, barely. I am sure it hurts them when we say mean ugly things to them.
So, try NOT to do it often. I know it is hard.
You;re not being a doormat although other may have you believe this...you are just not buying in and REACTING to their behavior.
I think one of the main points of DBing is NOT reacting but rather being being PROactive. Does that make sense????
JInkies this just came to me!!!!
Hang in there sweets...one day this will all be just a memory..
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
