Seperated here also, for almost 2 months. The chances are the OM was around before 3 weeks ago. At least in my deal, the OM crap plays a big role. it's amazing how all your faults come out when a spouse finds OM/W. Back way off , nothing you can to do to stop her Affair. Just worry about yourself, the kids, your job and your LIFE. For now as hard as it is , I fight it alot. For now let her go do her thing.
