Also something else that came to mind - should i get my health tested out? i don't know if h practised safe sex and his affair would have overlapped with us ML or should I ask him outright if he thinks I should get myself tested and add another implication for him to think about?
Get your health tested for YOU and YOUR peace of mind.
To ask H outright and try to give him something else to think about is in a way trying to control him, to push him along. He will go at his own pace. I thought in my sitch I could speed things along but I couldn't
Do it for yourself. If there are any bad results then you should of course speak to H, but my vote goes for not bedore.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
