You know, reading what you posted OPurr, I didnt get the impressin its "over" at all. I get the impression she is, like Tia said, an MLCer, running from HERSELF not you. She is weepy and tearful. She wouldnt be if it was over over! She said you were in the top 90% of men (well done! You do sound like a lovely bloke though and I'm sure her rational mind, whats left of it right now, realises what she has had). You offered to frgoet the next session, but I bet she wants to go ahead with it.

I'm no expert, but what if you just let her be? Go a bit "dim" as they say? I think the best advice, if you can afford it, is to book a session with a DB coach and take their advice, as your W is giving such mixed messages I reckon. I think it was brilliant that you stopped the hug first and walked off to your car in a more shut down mode...she may have picked up on that and it may have led to her email an hour later?

Its not over till someone says it is..keep going !!!!

Ali x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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