You need to minimize contact, not maximize it. You're right, 3 days was probably too much.

Leave her wanting more.

Act cool, confident, friendly but quiet. Go a couple days without calling. See if that changes anything. Monitor the results, then change it up again if you have to.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!