Just finished Divorce Busting and the book helped a lot. The problem is that back in January my wife was asking for a separation and I smothered her and did not give her space. I pushed her away and now we have divorce papers filed and they will be done six weeks or so from now. After reading divorce busting and marriage fitness I see what I did wrong. Pretty much all of the begging, pleading, crying, blaming, bargaining, checking up on her activites, calling her friends...you name it I've done it! I still want to stop my divorce but it sure feels hopeless. At first she said she "hoped" her feelings would change. Now she says she does not even "hope" anymore. Over the last three weeks there is OM invloved too.
A littel background on us....we were married at age 20 after the birth of our first son. We have three children now b12, b9 and g6. I feel like our problem has alwyas been that we have never been a couple so I think mmy wife is going through both Walk away wife and MLC at the same time.
Please ask questions for more background info and I would be happy to answer the questions. Thanks.
What should I be doing now if I don't want to give up?
M 31 W 30 S 12 S 10 D 5
Bomb Jan 1 Sep Feb 1 Seeing OM Feb 10 Divorce Papers Given to Her 03/20....returned signed 4-9....she wants it as of now.
