TAl I think your right about being spoiled. They don't take the time to work on their issues.

H did talk very briefly to me last nite.
told me he is sorry he is not here emotinally. but he does love me.


How can H not feel emotionally connected and not be able to tell me ILY only once in a great while and still love me as he says?

He is talking and doing things with friends and the kids. he does do things more with me.
I asked him what he needed to feel loved and taken care of and he said that I have done so much that there isn't anything need to do.

I think he is thinking that it will just happen that he isn't really working out his issues but, thats just my opinion.

Any advise here?
I am so close to the point of separation that it scares me. I wonder if I jut need to be more patient or if I need to shake things up. If it's shake things up what to do.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez