I went online this morning to clear my credit card balance and find that my wife has made some online purchases using my credit card numbers. I don't remember giving them to her so I am at a loss as to how she got them. It's not a lot of money - about $100 and I have my whole lifetime to recover from it, but now I am really thrown into doubt as to whether I want her back.
I'm sure in a day or two these feelings will subside and once again be replaced by longing and wanting her back though.
What's her game, is she trying to take revenge on me by running off to another country with OM and talking all the time about reconciliation - and doing it on my nickel? IMHO the consequences of leaving a marriage are a package deal. You can choose to separate from your husband and go with OM but you can't then say that your husband can't go with other women, and also still rely on your husband for economic outpatient care when you're bodily able to work yourself, and have no kids. She has been "supporting" herself using her credit card and is unemployed. I just do not think she is capable of making quality decisions at the moment - her credit card is Australian and the Australian dollar is a banana republic currency compared to the British pound, so she will be getting screwed on exchange rates bigtime.
It should be the easiest separation in the world but she isn't wanting to let me go.
I cannot describe the rage that I am feeling right now. $100 is nothing, but the lies, underhandedness and hypocrisy of doing it have made me livid beyond belief. It's the principle of the matter. However, I am still maintaining the 180 and being very calm about it. I'm not even going to mention it to her; I will simply call "Lost & Stolen" to make sure that any further attempts made by her to do this (and I'm now sure she will try it again) are unsuccessful.
If she wants to take off to another country while #*@!ing someone else she can do it on her own damn nickel.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
