JMW,
As you know I can't give you the answers you are looking for (unfortunately) BUT what I can do is reassure you that YOU are doing everything just right. Keep on being true to yourself and your sons. Your H (like mine) is a lost soul right now. Concentrate on those whose souls are alive and receptive to your love.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15