Just thought I'd write a quick update as a means of venting.
H has dragged his feet so much that the court date has now had to be adjourned, we have been unable to get everything together.
Frustating because although I didn't want this divorce or ask for it, every day that the proceeding are delayed the cost rises. The only people who will gain are the lawyers.
I don't think he is delaying because he is having 2nd thoughts, there are no signs of that, I do feel he has become so cynical and untrusting that he doesn't want to offer the information that is required of him.
I know I shouldn't speculate, to me the negotiations seem simple, get everything valued, offer these valuations to the lawyers, negotiate a fair split, The End.
I don't understand what H is looking for in having everything re valued, he doesn't even trust professionals that we have dealt with for years, he is going to be so disapointed when the repeat valuations come out the same.
