No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

H came over this evening. We had dinner and then he took S skating. After skating, H worked on his taxes here. It was almost like old times. He was pleasant, asked my opinion/advice about the taxes and I helped him out quite a bit. We had one tense moment when he realized he couldn't file his taxes because he needs my net income and I haven't yet started my taxes. He said he's now sitting in limbo waiting on his refund and can't do anything about it. I almost blurted out that if anyone has been sitting in limbo for the last several months it's been me, but instead I walked away, gained composure and said I would get my taxes done very soon and then he could go ahead and file his.
After this, I went into the bedroom to read. Before H left, he came into the bedroom a couple of times, sat at the foot of the bed both times and talked about non R things (mainly about frustrations with work). We had a nice talk. I thanked him for spending time with S, that S really enjoys spending time with him. He said he couldn't come tomorrow because he works late and then plays hockey but would come again on Thursday to be with S while I go to my course.