It actually feels like taking a medicin, you force yourself to do it but you feel so much better afterwards... (It needs some time to "kill the pain" though...)
OK, don't know what you sent through the computer, but I am giggling at my monitor! Thanks for making me feel good, you are helping the Project: Happiness get off to a great start! Now, off to get my kids from school and tickle them silly!
I agree that this weekend is not the time to tell your S. Before you do tell him you and H need to sit down decide what you will tell S. H and I went to talk to my T before hand about how to handle it. That didn't go really great because H can't stand her. We had it all planned out but I ended up doing most of the talking. Given you H's state, I would assume your sitch will be similar.
As for the family stuff...that goes in that mixed message mess. My H told me more than once that he doesn't like doing things as a family because it makes me think everything is ok. Yet once in awhile he will invite me to dinner or a movie w/ them. Don't get it.
Woog I have to say is smart about the look but don't touch. I need to cut out the touching because it only clouds my judgement.
Trust me, I look at my wife and I want to touch. Actually, I've been "lonely" so long I look at anything and.......
However, it can't be good to keep going back to it. It makes him believe that he is absolved of the things he has done. We men tend to think that if a woman is willing to sleep with us, then everything is peachy keen. I mean, why wouldn't we. Life is good. We got what we want and the woman seems fine with it.
So H just called. He actually greeted me with, "Hola?" So, I very chipperly replied in Spanish. I stymied him, as always, b/c he is not at all fluent and I am.
So I cut the Spanish, and said, "So if you're speaking Spanish does it mean you are in L.A. already?" (He was in Boise 2 days)He said yes, and asked for S. S was in bed but awake so I took him the phone. S told H that we had a Spring Break Party tonight, rented Bee Movie, had pop, popocorn, and pizza. Glad H knows we are happy campers on this end...
Anyway we only talked about 4 minutes and he said he had to go. He was in LAX and they had lost one of his boxes (he takes meat samples with him for the customers, and KerryK I forgot to tell you he used to sell Kobe beef and we would get the extra boxes from the plant for FREE! ). So anyway he had to go to wherever you go to find missing stuff....I hung up happy. It was a brief but all positive exchange. Thought it was cute that he said "hola"...
I will try to stay off of here tonight it keeps me from sleeping and I get wrapped up in a lot of tough situations right before bed, not good for the happy....
But I bet I am back in 30 min. anyway....this is my current hobby I guess....
Oh and I am thinking of buying a cute dress tomorrow to wear for Easter. If he can look but not touch, I may as well look GOOD. And it boosts the PMA, and thus, the HAPPY.
Woog you made me laugh again tonight! I don't know why, but "stick to the plan" made me think of covert missions involving all black clothing and sneaky maneuvers in the dark, a la mission impossible. I feel that the phrase "stick to the plan" should be said in a whisper... Maybe I caught Kalni's "silly" bug...
