I will try this again with a clearer head..help

[No_More_Dodo]

P.S....Another thing based on King David's story..

Now, if W wanted out, and God wanted the M to survive, couldnt He have interceded in some way, since I wanted it, and I knew it would give thanks and praise to the Lord?

Now, He has given me the tools to make me in an image now that any woman would be proud, I feel..now most Christians I think would tend to believe that somewhere God will open Ws eyes for her, and let her see what she is leaving, and at least give her the opportunity to come back...but what if it doesnt happen?

That seems to be my dilemma right now...

God Bless

Chevelle

Chevelle,

We could argue theology forever. I think if you gave the following facts to the pastor of any Bible believing church (AoG, Baptist, EvFree, etc.), he would say you could Biblically divorce your wife based on the following:

1. You were not the perfect H
2. She was not the perfect W
3. You wanted to work on M; she did not
4. She chose to leave the M
5. She chose to have sex with other men
6. She has stated she wants a D

I know a very few radicals would say you should stand for your M. I would TOTALLY agree if there was not Adultery involved. However, there clearly is…..

I would personally not press for a D immediately. However, I think you could given the facts. If she wants to press on with the D, I would facilitate it.

In the end, you need to move on.... I am certain God has something great in store for you...

No_More_Dodo