Of course..... and the more you point it out the more they will deny and refute you (blaming you for it). The funny thing I found. Is when I supported my husband's MLC and told him to go for it, you only live once and you should be happy... and the kids are fine... yada yada B.S., and then started acting somewhat similarly.... that's when my husband started actually looking at what he was doing.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.