They left for Vacation without me today and the girls called from the airport to tell me they loved me and will miss me. Then the wife got on the phone and just talk to later and hung up.....I am taking care of the pets while they are gone and went to the house. She left note saying their was a whole pizza left over from the night before in the frig.....???wierd. If I had made up my mind to divorce I would not leave a note like that. She also called frustrated before she left because she could not do our two acre lawn because the riding lawn mower would not star. She stated in a frustrated voice that when I get time I need to get all the lawn equipment working....She kicks me out of my home and then has the nerve to call me for that when she never calls me unless its about the kids....I am getting tired.......Anyway I appreciate all the reponses. When she gets back I am going on a trip for 4 days myself...After that I am going to tell her she has to make arranagements on Tues and Thursdays and I will take up Guitar lessons, bowling or golf........and see what happens with that. My counselor has suggested I do this...It will be hard to do because I really love my kids and will miss being there for them everyday...but I dont see any other way of getting her to feel the real world of being without me and being a single mom.
