need something to hang on to

[runningoutoftime]

You do sound like you are doing well. It's okay to flub up once in awhile and get mad or say something you regret. We've all done that, but overall you sound good. And answering relationship questions while staying away from deep conversation is okay. I think your desire to be happy and even saying something like, "I just want a great family," are honest, valid and positive answers. When I or my husband would wander into relationship territory the thing I'd concentrate on is wanting a healthy and happy family and that was it. Real simple. Also I'd pull up the "family" word more than the marriage or husband and wife thing. Because divorce or leaving a marriage with kids isn't just about "leaving a spouse." It's about losing a family. That's a huge thing to give up.