You being detached from her yelling might be some DBing in and of itself. I'm not sure that's necessarily a bad thing. Getting her to actually ask for what she wants might be a lot harder...and you are right that her not yelling doesn't mean she feels better.

My fingers and toes are crossed on your test results.

The easiest way to think of 180s is to think of your daily routine, then think of the opposite. The point is not to come up with normal, reasonable routine reactions! So don't worry if they sound silly or whatever. Just make us a list and then we'll sort through them.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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