H is having affair after all

[Jen_Jam]

Hi Eve - did you go to Relate? They were similarly negative with me. When H and I did go as a couple, they were pretty much useless.

Even if you didn't, this C is TELLING you what to do and think, not enabling you to come to your own conclusions. A good C will facilitate you understanding your feelings and they will never tell you what is right or wrong.

I used a C for my own issues, but for R councelling I found the DR book, these boards and my diary helped me far more, but I am more of a writer/reader than a talker.

I wouldn't see this C again .... she can see only the path to a D. That is one possible outcome for your situation and yes it may happen. It could have happened to me, but it didn't. A lot of things happened in my sitch which I didn't expect (like being unsure I wanted H back when he recomitted). The future is not set in stone.