We've been taught on this board how to keep our mouths SHUT and skirt around huge issues in order to Dbust our marriages. Yes we LOVED what USED to be our husbands. They no longer are ours. They belong to SOMETHING else.
Some of us have become walking doormats, others are afraid to make a move in case it goes against dbusting rules. We let our spouses go have affairs while we patiently wait here for them to emerge. Some do. But what do we have when they do? Lots of mistrust that they will do it again.
How long are we supposed to sit here and take this [censored] hoping they wake the hell up?
I say do what you need to do. For some speaking their minds have had a greater impact than sitting here trying to think of something solution oriented. A true MLC'er wouldn't know a solution if it bit them in the ass.
Cause and effect. Actions and consequences.
These are all pushed neatly under the rug for THEM.
I am all for the using dbing techniqes, they have been very helpful in my job and other stressful situations but for some what has been more helpful is a fu##ing wakeup call.
Hugs sweet sistah! May you prevail!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
but for some what has been more helpful is a fu##ing wakeup call.