You're right..to repeat is not good..I should know that best...everyone saya it is human nature..maybe to wonder but not everyone gossips and expands a fact to make it juicy...
Had a good time at our video club...there were new people there and we went around the room to introduce..came to h and he again had a hard time saying "my wife, Sue" happened to be another couple there with same first names as us h says"it might be confusing but I'm Jim too and that is Sue"..as he points over to me. Am I just being to observant..picky..would he have said that if we were happy as larks???possibly...but I seem to be looking or noticing little things that I might not otherwise do.
This coming Sat., he leaves for a week with our youth group from church on a trip to Tennesee..I am hoping he might call and say they got there ok, but should I suggest it??Or just leave him alone..he's an adult..IF he wants to talk to me, he knows the number. If I really search, the truth is I want him to want to call...there is still a little bit of the "why can't he just wake up and want me again" stuck inside me. So much to still work on..I don't want to fall back into that trap of needing him to make me happy..