I would say she called because she is "nosy". Or maybe she is feeling the distance. You even said you nor your wife really talk to her anymore. So I am gonna go with "nosy" and/or looking for the "drama".
Now think about this.. if your BF in the world (male) called you and asked you the same series of questions she did. Would you have felt the need to "defend" a answer of no?
I don't care if wife put her up to it. If she did.. in my book you should have sent a clear message that said "That ain't gonna work". If.. If your wife put her up to it. Which I have no reason to believe.
I see nothing wrong with you not forgiving your wife as of yet. Read it again.. NOTHING. I will say you better have it all worked out. Know why you are forgiving. And have some closure on it. Before you ever utter those words. Don't defend it. You have every right to feel the way you do. Does it have to color everything you do? No. You can function and "Do work" while you are figuring it out. The last thing you want it to be is "fake". You have been there and done that, it did not work. You hear me???
I mean lets face it. You were DAM'n when you were talking to her in the first place. I know we seek out the info for the fix. That is not you. I have watched from afar.. and that is not you. Don't let the stupid stuff get in the way. This is one of those things that could come back and bite you. I don't really see that but, I just want you to think. All the time. DB it all. Work, Wife, Random phone calls. The only time you don't have to DB is with your friends. Not the new one but the real ones.
You are doing great Lan. Seriously look back. Look at the response from people here. That is enough. Keep that thinking cap on. I will assure you it will be a long time before you take it off. Which one you want to roll out with DAM or DA Man?
Again keep in mind. I am not beating you up. You did OK here. I just want you to be the best you can be.
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I can't believe I just wrote that.
He** look at the impact this place has had on me. I HATE IT!! I have girly stuff all over me. BAH!!
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
