I also think that repeating what others are saying about him is not a good idea. It will make it harder for him, the guilt is there and that will not help it. And what would you gain if you did say something?
It sounds like you've had some good interaction over the last 3 days. Keep it up! But don't be surprised if he withdraws a bit b/c of all the contact. Just keep up your own PMA, and it takes some of the pressure off of him thinking you have expectations of what is to happen next. I know its hard, trust me I understand that one completely.
Keep up the good work!
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