TRUST ME! Whatever it is she sees in him, its not a reflection on you. This is not about you and I know how hard that is to see when you are the one having to go through all of the emotions, but its really not. There may have been issues that got your M to a place that an A was a possibility, but the decision to go forth with that A were not yours.
Iam not a Budweiser Girl by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm not ugly either, I'm cute. My H OW, and I have had confirmation on this, is straight FUGLY. She is 4ft. 10, over 200 lbs and usually looks like a pissed off TIKI. So don't overthink the who...its more about the why and that is her deal.
If you can do the friend thing, which right now in my sitch I really have to since OW claims she is "expecting", but other than that and my kids, there really isn't anything else to say.
You gotta do what works for you, but don't keep trying to figure out what is just beyone comprehension...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
