Made the trip to hospital with h..mil doing fine after procedure...it was a great 2 hour ride together..alone, as sil did not go with us. I was kinda nervous wondering if he was edgy that I might start a r talk..but I glanced at him several times and he seemed as calm as ever..on the ride home we were quiet..mostly tired. But I did think..what if we have nothing more to say..in my mind if we stay quiet too long, we must have lost interest..I am learning you don't have to talk all the time! Told h as he left that I was glad he asked me to go with..he just said "thanks"..oh how I wanted a hug...but I definately get the feeling he wants to leave quickly all the time..maybe feels like I am going to force it. Came over Fri night to watch movie for video club tonight..neither one of us liked it..it is the Japanese one Spirited Way, or something like that.