"If I had it to do over I would try to cut out my feelings and just hire a divorce attorney to protect me. But that wasn't me and sigh..probably still isn't! He just wasn't the moral upstanding person I always thought he was inside. I wonder if it will ever bother him to know his exterior is all fake?"

Pam, this bothered me sweets, I am kind of jumping on the bandwagon here but I try not to. But this engagement thing caught me. When will it stop? In my story I was proposed to, got a ring, lost the stone, found it, never saw the stone or ring again etc. Take care, Wonder