So my wife and I have been seperated for 1 month ,but she has been saying for 3 months she is leaning toward divorce. Should I acknowledge our Anniversay next week? Or let it slide and act as if on Monday? Anyone have any experience with this? Thanks all.
That's a tough one. It depends on where you are in your relationship with each other. Are you at least on friendly term? Is she angry? Do you talk on a regular basis?
I think I would probably call or text a simple "how are you doing today?" Just acknowledge that it's a tough day for your wife and you haven't forgotten. DON'T get sappy, just ask how she's doing.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Totally agreee with Ms Ladybug. Don't do or say anything to get her sad, angry, wistful or upset. Maybe just a light phone call, just to say hi, no R talk or future talk at all.
She knows it's your anniversary, trust me!
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
last year when we still together , I just sent a quick txt message. This year , separated , I sent her a small bunch of flowers . She just said a quick thanks but I noticed they stayed in her house till they died , last year I think she would have shred them
