Totally agreee with Ms Ladybug. Don't do or say anything to get her sad, angry, wistful or upset. Maybe just a light phone call, just to say hi, no R talk or future talk at all.

She knows it's your anniversary, trust me!

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!