Hey Pam,

Listen, I don't want to sound or be condescending, or anything like that. All I ask is that you be careful. I know you think you are, but you've never laid eyes on this guy apparently. Just be careful. You're a big girl Pam, and you will make your own decisions, but please learn from the past and at the very least listen. We only say things to you because we love you. It's hard for us to stop mothering. We're so hopeless. But we only say what we say because we want what's best for you. I hope you know that. Please, be careful. And please find a place that you will not go with this guy. Reach a point where you know what's best for you. There. I'm done.

On a happier note, the Fed cut interest rates 3/4 of a point today so rates should move downward soon.