I would vote for keeping quiet. What good would passing on the gossiping views of other people do for your R right now? You are making so many steps, recogonizing so many positive things, and it seems to be because you are putting no pressure on H. I would think if you brought all this up, it could topple down all the good and also bring up unpleasant memories. Concentrate on the present. Enjoy your successes. Ignore the gossip mongers.
