Get away from this counselor. She is far too negative. She has you on the path to divorce right away. I certainly would not send your H in to see her. Nothing you told us about that session asked anything about you or showed understanding of your feelings. She was just showing where to stand in line for a divorce. She does not seem to be a help to you at all. Saffie goes to a cognitive behavioral therapist and is very happy with the results. You should talk to her about finding another counselor.
