And Jilly Bean - you deserve to be happy! Cuz when it comes down to it - I think it's better just to pretend they're dead than to have any expectations of them That's how I handle it. And when I think of my ex being dead - Ohhh - I get such a calm feeling and a big smile. (oops - shouldn't have shared that - LOL! - this is a FINE red wine!)

I have everything crossed for you sweetie pie. But how do I pee now?

Barb