Trust me, I look at my wife and I want to touch. Actually, I've been "lonely" so long I look at anything and.......
However, it can't be good to keep going back to it. It makes him believe that he is absolved of the things he has done. We men tend to think that if a woman is willing to sleep with us, then everything is peachy keen. I mean, why wouldn't we. Life is good. We got what we want and the woman seems fine with it.