Would telling her you respect her wishes and not attending the family events be a 180 for you? When she asks you to not attend does she expect you to argue back?
If so- tell her thats fine and you won't go until things settle down and become less awkward
That's the DB way isn't it-however sometimes it's hard to raise above it but your doing ok
Continue contact with her family tho-acknowledge every invitation and continue to see them at other times.
The sooner your W and Om relationship normalizes -the sooner the rot will set in!
Find a way to realise your anger and frustration
Download the desiderata-it's a affirmation and a simple way to centre yourself in all the madness
