P.S....Another thing based on King David's story..

Now, if W wanted out, and God wanted the M to survive, couldnt He have interceded in some way, since I wanted it, and I knew it would give thanks and praise to the Lord?

Now, He has given me the tools to make me in an image now that any woman would be proud, I feel..now most Christians I think would tend to believe that somewhere God will open Ws eyes for her, and let her see what she is leaving, and at least give her the opportunity to come back...but what if it doesnt happen?

That seems to be my dilemma right now...

God Bless

Chevelle