Ok, Dom..points taken and heard, now for more follow up..
My thing right now is, she wants the D, so I can give her the D without fighting her..even if I feel it isnt right. That may be my interests, yes, but with God hating divorce, but also not messing with free will, saved or unsaved, would it not be safe to say that maybe W will D me, God will set in motion a plan for me that will work for me and Him.
I understand one of our goals is to glorify God, now she wants the D, since it is what she wants (God not messing with free will), and I understand after a two year S with no resolve, she doesnt plan on coming back anytime soon..and I have stood for my M and might even after D (God hates divorce, so we as WAS, should stand for our M). But this seems counterproductive.
In other words, Dom...I would like to stand..I feel God has worked many miracles in my life with this, but now Im unsure if this is the right thing....part of me even thinks to let her have the D, for me to PMA and GAL better. Doesnt mean I have to date or whatnot..Just "be still"..
Now, the other unsure thing is, God hates divorce..ok. Now if the D happens anyway because of Ws free will, Im sure God realizes I have done all that could be based on that. So, for me to let her have D, God can work on me, and perform miracles with me that will glorify Him, and let me know that it was ok to let the D happen..
I hope I didnt confuse you, Dom...I just dont understand sometimes how if God hates divorce...even if it happens, how does God view us then..as sinning if we have other Rs and a potential new W? Even if we did all we could to save the M?
