After all the times you stopped by thread and gave me support and advice, I thought I would check up on you, but of course only out of my own selfishness because I need your help!
I wish I could give you some advice about H, but I'm clueless! I'm glad he went to lunch with you when you asked, but I also know how hard it was for you to ask. Everyone tells me to ask W out, but I don't dare! Although she brought me lunch two weeks ago, after not seeing her for two months, and the first time we had lunch together in 6 months??? I actually think she needed to get into my office to get some more papers for her L for the D hearings next week, so I just left her alone in my office for two days.
So before I ask you for advice, back to your H. At least you are able to talk to him and do some things with him, athough I know how much it hurts you to be so nice to him when he is hurting you so much. You are a strong loving woman. And of course you know the routine by now; "be his best friend" It sounds like a bunch of crap, but you know the only other choice. It sounds like he may be starting to "wake up" so keep being strong!
You are always mentioning courtrooms in your posts. I figure that you either spend a lot of time in them because of your sit, or as an observer, or you work in one! Never figured it out! Next week I have to meet my W in court, and I'm not looking forward to it! How do you DB in a courtroom when your W is suing you, wants $$$, wants house, wants D, wants to marry OG, and all I want to do is not end up bankrupt?
I'll be gone 'till Monday, so I'll check back then!
Thanks,
And PS: Glad to know you have the same dreams I do!
