I agree that the less I know from my MIL the better I can detatch.
She however, calls to check in on me and see if I am doing allright and we always end up talking about my H.
After her and I talked last night, it was like I became a zombie that couldn't think of anything other than my H's MLC.
I should probably tell her the next time that we talk that I would like to step back some and detatch from H more. I would definitely miss hearing from his side of the family though, as I love them all dearly.
My H stopped by to walk the dog again today and left a note saying that he wants to go get her nails clipped. We have never had our dogs nails clipped before, so I don't understand his desire.
Also, he left an offer in the note to install the thresholds in my Town house from my new hardwood floor that he put in the week he was home. He must be feeling really guilty to be offering in all these ways to help. I dont know whether to let him do it or not, as my dad was already planning on helping me out. TIPPER