Quote: you would think being with someone that long that I would know what he thinks..
LOL! No kidding!!! Sorry...that really struck me as being funny. I think I'm punchy 'cuz it's late...
Sue, you know, unless I'm totally missing something, it seems to me from your posts that your H is a good man. He's going through some of the same junk that the rest of our Ses are going through (MLC...whatever), but he hasn't gone off the deep end like most of them. There do seem to be little signs that he's still "with" you in some ways. I think it's like you said, providing that space is beneficial...and hopefully it will lead him back home.
I know for my W, it took her a while to come around because she was involved with the OM. I know she tried to evaluate things, think things through, attempt to really look at our sitch...but alas, the A clouded her thoughts. This doesn't seem to be the case with your H. I can only imagine that the space you are giving him is providing him the opportunity for this self-evaluation.
Sorry...that really struck me as being funny. I think I'm punchy 'cuz it's late...